Nagging about certain things is common in my family and esp. in my friend group. We nag about everything. (ok- so it’s not only a female thing, trust me!!) If one of my friends is wearing something ‘not cool’ we nag about it and make fun of it, even if it’s cool. If I wear make up, my friends always nag about that too, they always say “Do you have a black eye?” “Did someone hit you?” I do the same thing. It’s our little way of saying “I love you” but it sounds like “I nag you”. I know that for some people this might seem strange. Maybe it’s Dutch? Maybe it’s just our little way of communicating.